Response to Comments (added new ones.....)

Thank you all for your Comments. The more you comment the much enlightened I am. So please do comment.

1) So, I earnestly feel that BEING SUCCESSFUL means BEING PURPOSE DRIVEN

Dear Kiran,
Thank you for your additions on my topic over Success. They are all true when you believe in the philosophy of Robin Sharma and others.
You are absolutely correct when you talk about GOAL SETTING, ACTION, PROCESS & JOURNEY. I personally think we should discuss about 'Purpose of Life' issue.
There is a philosophy in the same Sanskrit known as Soonyathvam which says nothing is important. You have to do nothing and be nothing to understand 'Nothing'. What you have to achieve in life is nothing but 'Nothing'.
Nihilism(Nihil in Latin means Nothing) also is of the same concept which believes that nothing has any importance and that life lacks Purpose.
I will write a blog completely on this Topic in the near future.

You are creating a Logic out of your life by saying 'what’s the use if it doesn’t fulfil the purpose'. And as i told you life doesn't listen to your fucking logic.
Its well and good as long as you are in calm waters, but when you are in a storm, the boat may take a turn and drift away from your goal. You will get frustated and cry aloud saying you have a purpose in life and you have to achieve it.
As long as you belive you can tilt the boat and drive it towards your goal, you are absolutely successful. You try to push it so hard but the boat may never turn. This doen't mean you are not successful because you dont know what will be the outcome of anything. You just have to do what you think is right for achieving what you want.

You are creating your logic by inventing a Purpose for your life. You say you have to do something to prove someone that you are the one. In order to fulfill your purpose you will give more reasons and more logic which will ultimately make your life complex. This will ultimately destroy your original state of being which is HAPPINESS. No matter what you do in life, you have to be in the original state of being called happiness. This comes when you dont compell life to act according to your logic of so called Purpose of Life.

Whenever you talk to a Successful Person:
He gives you logic why he is Successful.

Whenever you talk to an Unsucessful Person:
He gives you logic why he is not Successful.

But the fact here is both of them tried and they had their outcome. Then they are giving logic to the outcome which is bull-shit.
So dont listen to the logic they are giving because both of them are successful in doing whatever they want to do. They are giving a logic to the outcome which no body can ever know before hand.

What I mean to tell is both these people are Successful because they have done whatever they want to do. There are other people who never try to do what they want to do whom I call as UNSUCCESSFUL.


2) It'll better if u write a post on the topic 'Marriage' itself

Dear Harika

I think i shouldn't write a post on the topic 'Marriage' with my current state of mind. I am still thinking about it, whether we really need it or not. I can write topics 'history of Marriage in Indian culture' and 'Marriage in Western culture'.
These things will destroy our present understanding of marriage and you will be disturbed which I dont want now.
It will take some time for me to conclude and a write a topic. Whenever I come with the understanding I will definitely write it.


3) doing it for finding out a lifemate (not a mere mate) who will bound to you for eternity

Dear Kiran
Whether it is a mate or a life mate, find it yourself with your strength. A person without strength gives out Logic which I dont want you to do.
Coming to love marriage or arranged marriage, success of it is purely personal. You cannot comment on it.
Whatever you've said about love marriage might be true ten years before this date. The reason is people in Arranged marriage used to bind with each other because of their fear for society and the conditions were like that at that time.
Now the conditions are completely different and 'Nuclear Families' are the one to stay where more number of Arranged Marriages are going to fail from now on. This phenomena is already persistant.

4) talking about something without any logic isn't helping that in any way....

Dear Snigdha

The whole idea of this blog is to express myself so that people around me comment and help me to enlighten.
Thank you exactly for doing that.
For me enlightenment is to come out of all the reasons and logic we have given ourselves over generations.

All these things I am doing and this blog in particular is helping me a lot. This not helping me is what you thought is not the truth for me. This is actually helping me and you have given a logic or whatever you call it for yourself that this is not helping me.
See, this is the logic I am speaking about.

'Arranged marriage is a weakness' is a topic given to my thought process to attract viewers and their comments. Here the truth is Marriage and all the Why's and What's are the logics we have given. I am talking about all these logics to come out of these logics.

I dont know whether there is a logic in my thought process or not, all I know is I have to come out of all the logics we have given ourselves and come to a state of mind called NOTHING.

So this is my struggle to go there and all you people who are commenting are actually helping me.

P.S: I want you to comment on all my posts.

5) Confusing who.....

Dear Bharathi

I am not confusing anyone and am not trying for that because I am in a state of confusion and am thinking over that.
I am expressing all these just to get other point of views and so that I may come out of my confusions.

Dont expect me to give you the reasons in my Story named RYTHU BIDDA. This is just a story i've written from an inspiration i've quoted earier. I am just trying to write it as a Cinema Sript for a short movie.

Thank you very very much for your encouragement.

6) I would give a classic example which everyone can relate

Dear Prashanth

I will accept to the fact that you may many times cannot attract a particular person because of hell a lot of reasons. But if you say 'how many guys do you think can attract possible mates. And again I raise, Is attracting a person under one's control', this is absolutely I called Weakness.

As you've said, you will be attracted to so many possible mates. From all those can't you attract one. I'm not talking about attracting all those. If you say it's not in your control, you are absolutely accepting your weakness.

If you are not attracted to your mate or she towards you, why be a Couple.

I personally feel talking about 'Forcing Love' is bull shit.

I am very grateful to you for your time and value in your comment. I would expect the same from you everytime.