Monday, November 2, 2009

A COUP TO HAPPINESS

We were like computer hardware with basic software called instincts when we were born. We were very happy with no fear, no problems, no obligations etc.
Over a period of time our parents, family and the society inculcates software into our systems. This software is written with so many programs. The programs like ‘you shouldn’t eat chocolates’ to ‘respect your elders’ to ‘work hard to become successful’ to ‘set up a goal’ to ‘believe in God’ to ‘help others’ to ‘earn money to stay happily in future’ to what not.
Over and above you start to write programs on the platforms created by others like: ‘I will be so strong from today no matter what may come I will protect my family in the future’ to ‘I will not help the guy for his whole life who didn’t help me once’ to ‘I will marry a girl who is 100 times better than the girl who rejected my love’ to ‘I will go to temple every Thursday’ to what not.
All these programs in reality create huge conflicts and unhappiness.
You will set up a goal in your life and strive hard to achieve that with all the programs that are present with you. If a result is not as desired, a conflict starts and you create so many programs to combat others. You expect your wife to behave in some manner and when it doesn’t happen you write programs to combat the conflict.
Lot of conflicts come into picture with all the programs that you have created. All these conflicts make you loose your happiness. You might be getting pleasure out of small achievements but not continuous state of happiness that you were born with.

The simple coup to happiness is to remove the software completely.

Create your new software all by yourself in the way you want with all the understanding you have and follow your instincts.

LUST AT FIRST SIGHT

With all the intensity of his feeling towards her in his eyes, he said:
“I Lust You”.
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From the past few weeks he is observing her in their office. For the first time when he saw her, he observed only her eyes. She’s got those beautiful and big eyes that can attract anyone. Fortunately she’s got very beautiful nose, ears, lips and her fair toned skin makes her the most beautiful girl in their office. Just her eyes can turn many eyeballs towards her. The beauty grew over him after some time and his feeling towards her reached maximum.
With all the intensity of his feeling towards her in his eyes, he said:
“I Lust You”.
She said “Excuse me!!!” with an expression of confusion.
He repeated “I Lust You”.
She was startled at first but came to her senses immediately and laughed at his proposal. Her beauty might have attracted so many and at least few of them have expressed their feeling. But this proposal has confused her.
She said “If you like some one you should either say ‘I Like You’ or ‘I Love You’, but what is this?”
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The communication is very clear in ‘I Lust You’. Where as what do you mean by ‘I Love You’.
You love your mother, your country, your bike and what not.
Her beauty aroused a feeling in him which is definitely Lust. This lust makes him think about her all the time, makes him to stay with her all the time and makes him to unite with her physically.
You love your mother but it doesn’t arouse a feeling to stay with her all the time. You love your country but never think about it and of course you never want to unite physically with any object that you love.
Love is very subjective but lust is very pure.
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When he first saw her, she was in a tight Black Jeans and Pink T-shirt. Her dress elevated all her curves and of course she has great body structure. She has got a very normal face but her dressing made him attracted to her. He some how managed to make friends with her. They became very close over a period of time.
One fine night he finally expressed:
“I wanna make lust to you”.
She reacted very violently. She caught hold of his collar and started beating him left and right. She shouted “I was expecting something precious called Love and you have this bad opinion of Lust on me.”
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Somehow our ancestors made a blunder by projecting Lust as a bad thing.
Lust is as good a feeling as Love, Hatred, Pity, Mercy etc. If you think these feelings are very common in people, then Lust obviously should be included in the list. Lust is a feeling which Provo Cates you to have sex. You may be having a lot of friends whom you love, but you want to have sex with only with the ones you Lust. You may find sex appeal in different ways but definitely Lust should be there to enjoy sex. So our guy rightfully expressed “I wanna make lust to you”.
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He was waiting for his train on the platform. He observed a girl on the same platform who is watching him. She was an ordinary looking girl with an excellent sex appeal. When he was thinking whether her sex appeal is present in her ordinary looks, she started walking towards him. She stopped at him and asked:
“Do you believe in LUST AT FIRST SIGHT?”