A COUP TO HAPPINESS

We were like computer hardware with basic software called instincts when we were born. We were very happy with no fear, no problems, no obligations etc.
Over a period of time our parents, family and the society inculcates software into our systems. This software is written with so many programs. The programs like ‘you shouldn’t eat chocolates’ to ‘respect your elders’ to ‘work hard to become successful’ to ‘set up a goal’ to ‘believe in God’ to ‘help others’ to ‘earn money to stay happily in future’ to what not.
Over and above you start to write programs on the platforms created by others like: ‘I will be so strong from today no matter what may come I will protect my family in the future’ to ‘I will not help the guy for his whole life who didn’t help me once’ to ‘I will marry a girl who is 100 times better than the girl who rejected my love’ to ‘I will go to temple every Thursday’ to what not.
All these programs in reality create huge conflicts and unhappiness.
You will set up a goal in your life and strive hard to achieve that with all the programs that are present with you. If a result is not as desired, a conflict starts and you create so many programs to combat others. You expect your wife to behave in some manner and when it doesn’t happen you write programs to combat the conflict.
Lot of conflicts come into picture with all the programs that you have created. All these conflicts make you loose your happiness. You might be getting pleasure out of small achievements but not continuous state of happiness that you were born with.

The simple coup to happiness is to remove the software completely.

Create your new software all by yourself in the way you want with all the understanding you have and follow your instincts.